Facebook fear and friends

I use Facebook a lot. I like it, it is useful. Useful for keeping in touch with friends too distant to meet often; useful for finding out little things that I may have otherwise missed – a great concert over this last weekend, for example. Useful as simply another form of social interaction, that complements all the existing ones – telephone, email, face to face conversation of course.

Naturally, I tell people this and suggest that they have a look themselves. At which point something really odd often happens. A look of real concern crosses their faces and I hear:

“Oh, no I won’t use Facebook”

Or something similar. So what is it about Facebook that seems to inspire such a reaction, such an aversion, such fear.

I have no idea. But I then I wouldn’t: I like it. I’d like it even more though if more of my friends used it. For all of the reasons above. But they won’t, of course. And would I change them? – No, of course not, they’re my friends and I like them just the way the are.

Facebook

I’ve avoided Facebook, for years. Scared off probably by tales of the possible dangers, or the thought that is was really for students. (Viz. those a little younger than I.)

When I asked a friend about an old work colleague, he amazed me by knowing where she was and how she was doing. “I see her on Facebook”, he blithely told me. So I signed up.

Having used it now for a few months I am a great fan. There is something so professional and yet so clear and intuitive about it. Moreover, I am now in regular contact with people I otherwise saw or heard from too infrequently. And the age thing: the fastest growth is in my age group. Total active membership is now passing 250 million, and it is now the largest single social networking site; looking at the rates of growth, 400 million should come up around this time next year.

I am not surprised already I am more inclined to use Facebook than email. It’s easier I guess. Whatever the reason, for me it is just becoming the default electronic communication medium.